Pastor Peace Ibiyeomie, wife of renowned Nigerian preacher Pastor David Ibiyeomie, has issued a strong advisory to married women urging them to avoid close friendships with divorced women, warning that such relationships can lead to emotional and spiritual harm. The statement was made during a Mother’s Day service held at Salvation Ministries in Rivers State, where she addressed a large congregation of women. In her sermon, Pastor Ibiyeomie emphasized the dangers of associating with women who have gone through divorce, particularly those who publicly speak against marriage while secretly engaging in romantic relationships.
She cautioned that some divorced women may appear to be spiritually grounded or emotionally healed, but in reality, they may be involved in affairs behind the scenes. “Do not follow a divorcee as your friend, even if she is your sister. Teach her, either she reconciles with her husband, or she remarries,” she stated firmly. According to her, these women often tell others that men are not important, yet they continue to pursue romantic relationships, undermining the very message they preach.
Pastor Ibiyeomie shared personal insights, revealing that some single women have confided in her about their hidden affairs. “One opened up so much to me, that is why she wants to remarry,” she disclosed, highlighting the internal conflict many divorced women face. She questioned the inconsistency in their behavior, asking, “If a man is not important, why are you sleeping with him?” Her words were aimed at encouraging honesty and accountability among women navigating life after divorce.
She also stressed the importance of not allowing bitterness from failed marriages to spill over into the lives of others. “That your marriage is broken does not mean you should break another person’s marriage,” she warned. This message was part of a broader call for women to choose their companions wisely, as the company they keep can either uplift or drag them down spiritually and emotionally.
Pastor Ibiyeomie concluded her message with a powerful reminder about legacy. “Therefore, the company you keep will either keep you up or pull you down. Leave a meaningful legacy that you will be remembered for,” she urged. Her words resonated with many in attendance, sparking conversations about integrity, accountability, and the role of women in shaping their own destinies and influencing others positively.
As Nigerian society continues to grapple with shifting dynamics in marriage and relationships, Pastor Ibiyeomie’s message serves as a timely reminder of the importance of spiritual vigilance and emotional maturity in personal and communal life. Her advice is likely to spark further discussions across churches and homes nationwide.
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