Nigerian socialite and fashion influencer Bobrisky has ignited a heated online debate after criticizing the attire of some attendees at the service of songs held in honour of late Nollywood actor Alex Ekubo. The event, which took place in Lagos, drew family, friends, colleagues, and fans who came together to celebrate the life and legacy of the beloved actor. Bobrisky took to social media shortly after the gathering to express his disapproval of what he described as inappropriate fashion choices, particularly the use of heavy makeup, revealing dresses, and high heels at what he considers a solemn occasion.
He emphasized that a service of songs should not be treated like a white party or a fashion show. “It’s service of song not a WHITE party. What’s with all that heavy makeup, high heels, dresses that shows curves and all,” Bobrisky wrote. He further questioned the appropriateness of such attire, stating, “I don’t have a problem dressing classy and stunning but showing skin, thighs, cleavage to a burial YOU DEY CRAZE.” His comments were not just about style but about the perceived lack of respect for the occasion and the deceased.
Bobrisky also suggested that some attendees seemed more focused on attracting attention than mourning. “Some Nigeria girls fit hustle for mortuary if they allow them,” he added, a remark that sparked further discussion about gender roles, cultural expectations, and personal expression at memorial events. While some social media users agreed with his stance, arguing that funerals and remembrance gatherings should be marked by modesty and dignity, others defended the right to personal expression, as long as it remains respectful.
The service of songs for Alex Ekubo was a significant event, drawing a large crowd from the entertainment industry and beyond. Attendees shared memories, sang songs that reflected the actor’s journey, and paid tribute to his contributions to Nollywood. The event was both emotional and celebratory, highlighting the impact Alex Ekubo had on Nigerian cinema and his fans.
As conversations continue online, Bobrisky’s comments have brought attention to broader cultural debates about dress codes at funerals and memorial services in Nigeria. The discussion reflects evolving social norms and the tension between tradition and personal freedom. Moving forward, the incident may prompt more thoughtful conversations about how Nigerians choose to honor the deceased while expressing their individuality.
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