A viral video believed to show Alexx Ekubo’s widow, Anwuli Ekubo, at his service of songs in Lagos has sparked widespread online debate, with many Nigerians criticizing the public attention directed at her during a time of mourning. The emotional footage, captured during the tribute event held in honor of the late Nollywood actor, has drawn sharp reactions from social media users who argue that the family’s privacy should be respected. While some praised the heartfelt tribute delivered by Anwuli’s sister, others condemned the sharing of the video, calling it insensitive and driven by clout-chasing motives.
The service of songs, held in Lagos, brought together numerous Nollywood stars, friends, and loved ones to celebrate Alexx Ekubo’s life and offer support to his family. Anwuli’s sister, speaking during the event, shared touching details about the actor’s relationship with the family. She recalled how the family warmly welcomed Alexx when he formally asked for Anwuli’s hand in marriage, describing him as intentional, caring, and loving. Her words painted a picture of a man deeply committed to his wife and family, reinforcing the emotional weight of the gathering.
Despite the somber nature of the event, the video of Anwuli, seen wearing a face mask and glasses, quickly circulated on social media platforms. Many users expressed discomfort over the identification and public display of her image, with some questioning the ethics of sharing such intimate moments. Comments ranged from “Smh, why can’t you post about your life & family” to “Clout chaser,” reflecting widespread concern over the invasion of privacy. Others pointed out the irony of celebrating a private life while exploiting grief for online visibility.
One user, @switbeckssexy, directly criticized the video’s circulation, writing, “Are you mad? For a video that is all over the internet? Privacy from where to where? Your mother is the silly one! Idiot. Get lost olofo!” Another, @KateyChioma, offered a more empathetic perspective, noting, “Chai, I really knew it won’t be so easy at that environment for them with those memories, pictures and hearing those tributes. What was fun and memorable became a reminder of pain, sorrow and crying.”
The incident highlights the growing tension between public interest and personal privacy in Nigeria’s digital landscape. As tributes to public figures become increasingly visible online, questions about ethical boundaries and respect for grieving families continue to surface. The legacy of Alexx Ekubo, celebrated for his talent and kindness, now includes this moment of public scrutiny, underscoring the need for greater sensitivity in how we honor the deceased and support their families.


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