Nigerian singer Tekno has raised concerns about the state of modern relationships, asserting that marriages no longer function as they once did and that genuine love has significantly declined since the COVID-19 pandemic. In a recent interview with Cool FM, the award-winning artist shared his observations on how the pandemic altered dynamics in romantic partnerships, leading to increased awareness of incompatibility between couples. He explained that prolonged periods of isolation forced many people to spend more time with their partners than ever before, revealing deep-seated issues that were previously overlooked. “People got to spend time with their partners that period so maybe they got to realize they don’t really like them,” Tekno said, adding that this realization has led to a widespread reluctance to invest emotionally in relationships.
Tekno further claimed that societal attitudes toward love and marriage have shifted dramatically, with clout and social media influence now taking precedence over authentic emotional connections. He pointed to the entertainment industry as a reflection of this change, noting that romantic storylines in Nollywood films no longer feel organic. “There was a time where love was a thing, for real. Even our movies revolved around love. Now our movies are just clout and influencing. It doesn’t feel organic,” he stated. The singer also expressed concern over the erosion of respect in relationships, particularly within high-profile circles. He alleged that even the wives of respected public figures are now involved with younger men, highlighting what he sees as a growing trend of infidelity and emotional detachment. “Marriages don’t work. You even have some of our legends’ wives getting chopped by some of the new boys,” he said, using a popular Nigerian slang term to describe extramarital affairs.
In his view, the decline in genuine romance is tied to a broader cultural shift away from valuing emotional depth and personal space in relationships. Tekno emphasized the importance of allowing partners room to breathe, arguing that absence should be appreciated as much as presence. “If you can’t appreciate the absence, the presence doesn’t really make sense,” he said, underscoring the need for mutual respect and understanding in modern love. His comments have sparked conversations across social media platforms, with many Nigerians reflecting on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships in today’s fast-paced, digitally-driven world. As Tekno continues to speak on social issues through his music and public appearances, his insights into the evolving nature of love and marriage resonate with a generation grappling with similar struggles. The future of relationships in Nigeria may depend on whether people choose to reclaim emotional authenticity over fleeting digital validation.
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