BLord further advised men to prioritize building their financial foundation before marriage. “Try to be up and doing before you get married because you have school fees to pay,” he urged. He revealed that he currently sponsors multiple individuals through educational scholarships, even those whose parents are still alive. “I have so many people on my scholarship. It’s not supposed to be so. I’m paying school fees for another man. Paying their school fees and their father is alive and I’m paying school fees for them,” he added, highlighting the burden that can fall on one person in a family.
To women, BLord offered a powerful piece of advice: “If you as a lady look at a man and say, ‘God, I don’t want my unborn children to be like this man,’ then I don’t think you should marry that man. The man you want to marry, if you cannot wish your children to be like him, don’t marry him.” His words reflect a growing emphasis on long-term compatibility and financial foresight in Nigerian society.
As conversations around marriage and financial readiness continue to evolve, BLord’s views add a bold perspective to the national dialogue, urging both men and women to approach relationships with clarity, responsibility, and realistic expectations.
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